Outsmarting a Narcissist is a science. You can’t just use logic because unfortunately the narcissistic brain is pathological. It doesn’t work the same as our brains. We have to understand what makes the narcissist tick. What they’re looking for in interactions with us and how their brain works. If you want the narcissist to [...]
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Very often, when we drop the Narcissist in our lives more narcissists will come into our life and when we get rid of those narcissists more narcissists will turn up to take their places. Some of us will begin to believe that the world is full of narcissists and that we will never be [...]
A torturous experience with a narcissist can be a huge blessing. It’s all up to you. You decide whether to lie down in the gutter and die, but if you decide to pick yourself up dust yourself off and keep going this can be an incredible journey, and a true gift to you. I [...]
Overt narcissists don’t need help in showing their true colors. They don’t hide their true colors, because they are overt about their narcissistic behaviors in front of everyone. This is why I believe they are not less narcissistic, but less dangerous than a covert narcissist. My most important recommendation when dealing with a narcissist [...]
If you are the scapegoat, it’s not about you. The dysfunctional family is projecting their own shortcomings and shame onto you and you have been brainwashed in a Macabre dance to enact their projections. You maybe asking why is the whole family against me? Surely they all can’t be wrong? It must be me. [...]
How to clear subconscious childhood experiences in order to authentically transform your present reality.Delaney Kay 2018-03-11T20:10:13+00:00
This is a follow up from my last blog “Unintegrated childhood experiences are still creating your reality" If you haven’t read that blog I recommend you take a look at it first. I will put a link to it at the bottom of this blog. All of us have unintegrated emotions from childhood. They [...]
Everything comes from within. All your answers are within. Your external circumstances are a reflection of your internal landscape. The outside is an allusion. You have full control. Everything that happens to you is a reflection of internal patterns. As you change your feelings and reactions inside, the outside changes. As you integrate the [...]
After spending a lifetime, or even only a few years, dealing with narcissistic individuals, a substantial amount of emotional damage will have been done to you. Recovery is not an easy journey. The first thing you need to do is to get as far away from the narcissists as you can. Distance yourself as [...]
(Disclaimer: I referred to narcissists in the masculine form here just out of convenience, but men and women can both be narcissists.) Narcissists can often seem invincible, indestructible and without weakness; but it is often their extreme, pathological fears that make them behave in these ways. Below, I describe 4 of the major fears [...]