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About Me

Delaney Jessica Kay hosts a YouTube channel “Daylight out of Darkness” and is a life coach. She has devoted her time to research and helping people understand and heal from emotional damage as a result of dysfunctional families and psychological abuse. Not only does she understand the traits of such families and individuals, but she has gone to great lengths to find ways to heal from different types of emotional and psychological abuse.

“You can change your life.”

Delaney Jessica Kay hosts a YouTube channel “Daylight out of Darkness” and is a life coach. She has devoted her time to research and helping people understand and heal from emotional damage as a result of dysfunctional families and psychological abuse. Not only does she understand the traits of such families and individuals, but she has gone to great lengths to find ways to heal from different types of emotional and psychological abuse.

Delaney has been on an incredible journey. She was born into a highly dysfunctional family in Africa. A disappointment to them. Born with a developmental type of dyslexia as well as certain other neurological disabilities,  later identified as being caused by prenatal exposure to alcohol (yet another danger of these families that is seldom recognized) she was designated as the primary family scapegoat. She suffered huge mental and emotional abuse both at home and school which had a profound effect on her.

Delaney went on to repeat her childhood situation by marrying someone more abusive than her father, and although  initially looked like the knight in shining armor sadly that façade was a cardboard cut out to hide his true self and intentions. ignorant of the true situation and afraid of leaving Delaney spent years trying to understand what was going on and make their lives better, but things just went from bad to worse. When she finally realized the narcissism and the implications of that, he became more abusive and dangerous, deceiving others, Delaney’s friends and family who all turned against her leaving her isolated. She only had two options at this point. Lie down in die or fight him as he tried to get full custody of the children with lies and deception.

Incredibly Delaney has managed to pull herself out of this very dark hole. Healing the extensive emotional damage caused from years of abuse, she has put her life back together better and stronger than it ever was before. She now enjoys helping others with recovery, teaching them to reconnect with their authentic selves, and live a more fulfilling and happy life.

Disclaimer:
All statements made on this website or during consultations and coaching sessions are expressions of the opinion of the coach, and should not be regarded as a diagnosis of any mental health disorder in any person. In coaching sessions and at any other time all decisions made by the client are the complete responsibility of the client. Consulting a mental health expert is always highly recommended prior to embarking on any course of action or diagnosis of self or any other individual. Reference’s made to personal situations may have been modified to make a certain set of general dynamics easier to understand and therefore more therapeutic to the desired audience and in no way constitutes as factual.